So recently i been not updating this space for awhile as I am kinda of busy and slightly lazy as welll (Sorry guys , I won't do it again) Anyway if you guys follow me in twitter or instagram, you guys should know what going on , if not here I am to filled you up with what going on so recently my boyfriend have went overseas to study even though it's for a short while, I just can't get used to it. Nobody say it's going to be easy but nothing is impossible , am I right? Well it may be tough at some point but it has it's own surprise i guess?
Here are some tips i realize during this period!
I think it's really important to know what is the other parties doing and when is their free time? It's not like controlling but more like having time for each other to communicate especially the timezone is different!
Talk about your feelings, jealousy, insecurity and fear about things. Be truthful to one and another. To be honest , who would like to date a liar? (I wouldn't) I rather hear the honest answer than a lies even though it's going to hurt but at least you don't have to hide anything from each other!
Keep on track on social media on your partner so you would roughly know what's going on in their life, rather than have no clue what going on. Show that you care. I think it's cool to stalk each other.
Be positive! It's going to hard if you going to be negative with everything and it's going to make your life so much difficult. Just look at the bright side of the life , I guess thing will be better and less quarrels!
Trust is a big issues , especially the distance is making things more difficult! I guess you really must have faith on your partner and trust. Trust is not easy issues it take time to trust someone fully, prove to your partner that you can be trust and break the walls between the relationship , things will be much more easier.
I hope this few tips does help you (it kinda help me by making me think very deep, feeling kinda sucky but yet there's nothing you could do to chase this feeling away) , So if anyone out there feeling this way, don't worry because you're not alone, till then x.