When he say he doesn't love you anymore , roll your shoulder back & look him in the eye. Even when it feels like your ribs are breaking inward, like spider legs. When he digs up old aches that he swore he forgave you for, smile and ask him why he didn't leave you sooner? It's okay to cry over him , it's even okay to forgive him but do not go back to him. If he did not know how to love you the first time, he won't know how to do it the next time.