Tuesday, July 29, 2014

Is your relationship suffering?


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I am back once again from my hectic life during work and finally got the time to blog again! So I am still struggle with my life and relationship! I really admire those couple having a strong relationship regardless having lots of quarreling but I can't compare as different couple have different situation! I guess building a strong relationship requires a lot of hard from both parties. I am suck at handling relationship, I swear. It's never easy for me. Alright i shall stop ranting about it! I guess here's some reasons why is my relationship or your relationship may be suffering? 

Days by days we start to disagree with each other...I felt that never ever let communication gap between the two of you. Show a keen interest in what they say (which i forever don't) and make them hear your side of story in return ( I guess by the time I would have start a quarrel) 

Those fights and quarrels increases when you start expecting a little too much from your partner (but to be honest who doesn't expect, people are selfless) I guess the only way was to keep your expectations realistic and don't expected too much from them.

Never ever forget why you fell in love with your partner in the first place. The best is do not try to make them someone that they're not. (Love me for who I am) 

Lying is never a good thing. Be real to your partner, if you ever did something wrong, just confess. It's better than lies over lies and soon you'll find yourself surrounded by a fortress of lies. It's hard to have a proper relationship , when one of them start to lies. Why would you rather lies than telling the truth? (even though the truth hurts)


I miss you yet i hate to argue with you but it just doesn't stop , I guess it take two hands to clap but if I ever leave the relationship, maybe this time i guess i won't be turning back, till then.