Relationship?
I really have no ideas how to define what's relationship but I guess people out there who's attached always ended out with this question "why?" But we ended out at the stage where we never wanted it to be "back to stranger"
Well...it always started with "the catch" , whereby you will find someone out there who's attractive to you, make you want to know him/her more, make you think of him/her once in awhile, make you want to mention his/her name in front of your friends once in awhile. The thoughts of seeing the person make you instantly happy.
and following by "the courtship" whereby both parties will features their best features and hide their flaws away. At this point, either you get reject by the other parties and back to "the catch" again or if the courtship is successful, it's the part whereby fall in love.
"Romance" Time moves on. Swell of passion begins to fade. He/she is still perfect . . . mostly, well except maybe for this one little thing
And slowly "The honeymoon period had ended" , ain't it sad? All those little efforts been putting in for this relationship, just to make sure it work and after being together for 3 months, all those bullshits start coming in? Blaming each other for anything.
and drop all the way to "Rude awakening" where you found out those problems, issues between both of you. Guys begin to think "Why is she like that?" Girls begin to think, "He'll never change." Often this is accompanied by feelings of betrayal, of having been wronged, let down, disappointed, or hurt.
so now we're at "This's not what I expected" Girl will usually think "I thought that we will work out, things will get better, I thought that if he really want to cherish this relationship he will put down his ego." Guys will usually think "Why am I always at fault? Why can't you think of my feeling? I sick of you keep shouting at my face" and start drifting to the stage....
"Crossroads" whereby couple will sit down and think about it , is it still worth to fight for this relationship? Have a break and resume with the problems , or just ended with "back to stranger"
Cherish the person next to you, you never wanted to regret that you didn't cherish the person well, x.